I think I have to make a new tumblr omg
I think I have to make a new tumblr omg
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Spankings. Sometimes just a little swat will snap her back in line. If she is in need of something more severe, you can utilize tools to help. Paddle, crop, wooden spoon, whatever you have handy ;)
Privileges revoked. Take away her phone, Internet and/or TV privileges for a period of time. You can also make her sleep in her room instead of daddies bed. Only good girls get to do that.
Corner time. Grab her by the arm or hair and press her nose against a corner or wall for a period of time. It’s recommended no more than a hour. You can add a twist and have her stand on one leg. You sadist!
Early bed time. Need I say more?
No sweets or junk food. All littles have a favorite snack and when they misbehave you can forbid them from indulging. Say it ain’t so!
Unpleasant chores. Find out what she doesn’t like to do around the house and put her to work. I personally hate washing dishes. Blah.
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p>Hold her stuffie for ransom. Tell her that behaving is her payment to get that stuffie back.(please make sure this won’t cause a trigger.)
These are just a few popular punishments within the DD/lg community. It’s a daddies responsibility to make sure his little girl gets in line.
Before the punishment make sure your little knows WHY she is being punished. Punish when she is bad in the moment or when you get home, don’t let things build up.
Aftercare is a MUST!! Please demonstrate aftercare and let her know all is forgiven. Littles are very fragile and need reassurance that everything is okay after a punishment. Even if it’s a scolding or lecture, make sure they know all is forgiven.
FINALLY, someone who included two important things: first, they must know why they’re being punished. Also, though it’s usually not a problem when punishing a little, never give a punishment while angry about the deed. punishments are meant to be given once you’re able to forgive your little, so you can move past the deed.
Secondly, HELL YES, you mentioned taking the stuffie away might might be a trigger! This type of punishment should be used with care, as some littles enjoy their stuffies, while some have a very strong emotional connection with them. And if you take the stuffie away, if can cause emotional distress. So amen to you, for that!
Finally, I figured I’d add that as far as the red zone goes, do not ignore your little as a punishment. This post is about what’s good for punishments, but I might as well put down that ignoring your little will only hurt them, giving feelings of distrust and abandonment. This should never EVER be used. Littles open themselves up to you, exposing everything. Don’t betray that trust.
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do you ever get sad attacks and it drains you and you’re just left sitting there like wow this is so uncalled for rude
Yes
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